
Recently, I got into a car "accident". I'm reluctant to use the word "accident" because I wouldn't term it that way. It was simply a "miscalculation" on my part that I scratched the car of XXX while I was backing my car out of my garage. Anyway it turned out that the owner of the car, XXX, wld like the car re-spraypainted, refitted, and re-adjusted, and all that comes up to $340. What really bothers me is, is all that worth it for a scratch like this?
Over time, I've come to realise that perhaps I'm biased. Perhaps I should not judge others by my own standards. Personally, I would not have requested for such bold claims from anyone who caused such a minor scratch, but I cannot expect others to hold similar views.
I do not really want to dwell on this matter anymore but I'm tired of explaining to people that it's only a 1cm scratch. People can tell me I'm stupid for agreeing to pay the amount requested, or say that I should just pay and forget about it. I don't care anymore. There's probably no right way to go about dealing with this. It just revolves around the issue of how much one would want to protect oneself, and how much one is willing to give in to avoid conflict. Sigh.
















